The last video stood out to me, that I have a responsibility to stay engaged- that is impactful. Like being seated on the plane, before the bungee jump- can I commit to the unpopularity that sometimes comes with calling people out, the uncomfortable conversations, etc.? Relationships will have to change- and I have to be mindful in my approach. The message isn't better received if the other party isn't interested, open or playing fair- so being responding vs reacting is something I have to work on.
I know immediately, this weekend when I spend time with friends poolside, someone will make an inappropriate joke, or slur and I will have to take a deep breath and jump right in..